How to host a house concert

Some of the best live music experiences these days can be found right in people’s homes, thanks to the grassroots phenomenon of house concerts.

If you haven’t been to a house concert before, it’s simply an up-close-and-personal performance—live in the living room, den, barn, backyard, or wherever—for an audience of friends and neighbors. There is a suggested donation for the performer, and often people bring drinks and food to share. 

As a lifelong acoustic musician, I love having the chance to play music in such an intimate setting with minimal or no amplification, and I’ve also had wonderful experiences hosting house concerts with some of my favorite songwriters (in the photo above, I’m introducing the Young Novelists in my living room).

Interested in hosting a concert in your home? It’s easy and fun. Here are the basics.

The space

All you need is a space big enough to seat 15 to 30 people or more. You’d be surprised how many people fit comfortably in an average living room when you move some furniture and bring in small chairs.

An outdoor show, in a backyard or even a driveway, is a great option that became a lot more prevalent during the pandemic. In the time when indoor music venues were largely shut down, I hosted a few backyard shows (bring your own lawn chairs and food/beverages) that were a special treat. I was happy to discover that my own deck makes a nice stage for my four-piece band, and the yard itself has ample room for a substantial audience to spread out.

A canopy/tent big enough to cover the performers can be nice to have for an outdoor event, plus of course some kind of lighting for evening shows.

Sound equipment

In most living-room-type situations, I personally prefer using no sound equipment—it’s a revelation for many people to experience truly unplugged music, without the barriers of mic stands and speakers. But if you do want to use sound reinforcement, keep it as simple and unobtrusive as possible. Just a touch of amplification goes a long way. For a solo performer, a single large-diaphragm mic for voice and instrument can be a great solution that maintains the stripped-down acoustic vibe.

Outdoors (as well in larger indoor spaces and with bands), you’ll likely need some kind of PA for instruments and voices to carry. You don’t need to blast people out, though. Letting neighbors know about your event in advance, and asking if they have questions or concerns, is an important courtesy. In my own backyard shows, I’ve even had immediate neighbors set up their own satellite parties where they can hear the music.

The audience

Invite your friends and neighbors, and encourage them to spread the word to their friends too. In hosting house concerts, I’ve found that people come not because they necessarily know the performer but because hearing live music in this kind of down-home environment is such a special experience.

Typically the invitation includes only the date, the town/city, and the host’s email address for inquiries. When you confirm a reservation, you supply the street address and other details.

If you’re hosting a show and want to limit the guest list to your friends, just discuss that with the performer in advance.

Invitations

Send your invitations a month or so before the concert, and ask people to reserve seats. You can use email or a service like Eventbrite that automatically tracks RSVPs. You will probably need to send a few reminders in the weeks leading up to the show.

Creating a Facebook event and inviting friends that way can be helpful, but I prefer using email. In my experience, email reservations are far more reliable than Facebook RSVPs as an indicator of who will actually come to an event.

A few tips for invitations:

• Stress that space is limited and reservations are required.

• Describe (briefly) what a house concert is and how it works, including the suggested donation, for the uninitiated.

• Share your own enthusiasm for the music—that’s the best way to draw an audience!

• Include YouTube and website links where people can sample the music and learn more.

• Even if people make firm reservations, assume that a few will back out at the last minute because of illness, weather, etc. If your reservations hit capacity, keep a waiting list or even overbook a bit so seats don’t go empty.

Here are few sample invitations: for a backyard show through Eventbrite (click view details) and a duo house concert.

Donations

Instead of tickets, there’s a suggested donation (typically $15 to $25) for the performer. You can put a donation basket in a location where people will see it as they enter or leave, and/or pass the basket when everyone is seated. Be sure to remind people about the donation at the beginning of the concert or at intermission.

Since people generally carry less cash these days, accepting donations electronically is a good idea. In the invitation to a recent house concert, I included PayPal and Venmo links for donations, and most of the donations came in advance that way.

Some touring artists these days do house concerts for a flat fee, and it’s up to the host whether to cover that amount or ask guests for donations.

The schedule

A typical concert is two 45-minute sets with a 20- to 30-minute intermission. It’s nice to have some socializing time beforehand too, so you might tell people the show is (for instance) doors at 7 or 7:30, music at 8.

Merch

Designate a good spot for laying out CDs and other merchandise, where there’s room for people to congregate and chat.

Food and drink

If you like, you can offer drinks and snacks and/or invite people to bring something to share. Some house concerts even include a pot-luck meal.

Accommodations

For any artist on tour, a room for the night and a home-cooked meal is greatly appreciated.

Booking

If you’re interested in hosting a house concert with me, find more info here.